Sounds like fun, but seriously, does anyone ever consider the likelihood of contracting an STD?
Let him fuck her, you don't own your wife, so let her have the fun you know you both want. I did...
Do it! Settle in and watch. Get to know her better. however, none of life will look the same after this. You will have to have your first sex with her afterwards - you feeling ready to go where she has others pleasuring her too...?! You able to stand up straight on your feet and see yourself as a guy who can do that?
As an example of what can happen - my wife can be overcome with love for me she has to express when she is there going through the several guys she has lined-up, etc.
Let her you'll be surprised how much you and her will like it, I sure did.
My insecure jelous nature, actually boyishly cocked was afraid to let it happen. When it did and I discovered her fresh when we got to the party panties gushing another man's cumloads and her tight pussy gaping I nearly lost it.
I actually did lose it before I could get it in her, lol.
If he's an attractive bartend you can bet your last dollar that his cock has been around and then some. If you fuck him, have him wear a condom.
I agree with #2 & #4.
But just curious... what were the 5 items on the list of things she'd let you do to her?
Also (assuming this is not the last time this happens) a list might be a good thing to have her give you before EACH time.
Sounds kinda hot IMO
Just sayin..