I'm married to a very wonderful, sexy man. But it seems for a long time I couldn't get in the mood to thoroughly enjoy sex. At least three years after our son was born. Maybe it was my birth control, but sex was barley any good.
I had no want, couldn't get or stay wet, and while sex wasn't always bad, it just wasn't what I wanted.

I finally got my birth control removed and it has been about a month. Suddenly, my sex drive is through the roof. I get so slippery wet just thinking about my husband's sexy body. Masturbating just isn't cutting it, either. I want HIM.

I can't even watch porn anymore. I end up thinking about how much I want his body pressed against me, the feel of his thick cock inside, and his thrusting motions stimulating my clit.

And oh, my word, the way he eats me... He actually enjoys going down on me! And he is so masterfully perfect with his tongue.

Maybe my body is making up for all that time sex was a chore.

But one bad thing now, is he can't cum inside me. I'm not ready to be pregnant again, but getting that birth control removed and feeling this way again is worth missing out on the extacy of him cumming in my pussy. If that's what I have to miss to feel sexy and enjoy sex, then I'll take it!

Another bad thing is I don't think he realizes how harshly I crave him now. I wake up at night softly moaning for his touch.

I want him to feel how much I ache for his body. I want him to make love to me like it's our last time, even though it's not! I want him to push into me, long and slow. I want his pelvis against mine as he runs his tongue across my nipples. I need his body pressed against my back, with his hands tracing the curves of my chest and hips, while he reaches around to my crotch and seductively rubs me. I want to lay him back and make him moan while I take his thick manhood into my mouth and show him oral pleasure such as he's never felt before. I want to literally cry with joy as I cum on his dick.

I want him so bad. Maybe more than I ever have. Every time I touch him, I feel a throbbing between my legs, even if I just caress his shoulder. I don't just want to fuck, and I don't just want to make love. I want to fucking make love. Deeply passionate, sexy, satisfying love making.

I want to go back to normal, to how it was before that stupid birth control, but I don't know if sex was this good before. Now, I can stay wet and aroused until I finish. It's the waiting that's agonizing.
I want to be okay while I wait for sex. Right now I crave him so bad, the hours take forever to pass.

He is the best partner I've ever had and I want to show him my appreciation by stroking his cock with my juicy pussy. I can't say it enough, I crave him.

I want to wear sexy lingerie and play with him. I want to hear him beg me to cum on his dick. I want to get sloppy with him.

I don't know how long this feeling will last. While I hate waiting, I don't want it to disappear completely.

Because I desire him, I feel sexy and (maybe a little) daring! I'm not that worried about my extra cushion anymore! I feel desirable because I desire him.

I want to blow his mind away with what I do in bed, while getting myself off at the same time! I want as much of him as I can possibly have. He is my husband, after all. Don't I deserve that?!

I know he loves me and finds me sexy, I just wish I could show him what I see in my day dreams about him. I don't think he realizes how much he's on my mind.

Baby, what can I do to make you see how much I want your body? Is asking for sex just not enough?
My body is addicted to you. My mind craves you constantly.

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by Anonymous

I'm with you. We had the same issues after our son was born. For almost 3 years after our son was born, I had no want. My husband asked me to get of the birth control pills because it stifled my sex-drive. He was right. After stopping the pill, I want it a lot more and more than once. The downside is he can't cum inside me either and he misses it. Condoms dull the sensation for him. I found an insertable spermicide cream at the drug store; it worked well but got really messy and made receiving oral sex a no-no. We're still trying to figure out what'll work because I'm not wanting another baby yet; but we're loving my revived sex drive and I'm not giving up receiving his special kisses. Good Luck!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

Enjoy while you can. The exact story many marriages have. I have been married 39 years. My wife has aged out of her hormones. We know how we couldn't get enough of each other. Now we just talk about it and still have sex but the quality isn't near the same.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

All the hormonal precautions, pills, IUD and other like that (and also age) affect to your hormonal system.

Because your hormonal system tell your brain, you cant have a baby, it shuts off your needs too.

This is a known symptom for those precaution methods, but doctors do not usually say anything about it, even when you get a hormonal IUD.

Today it may be even difficult to get the old copper IUD because doctors want women to use hormonal precautions. If you dont want any children, or if nothing else works for you demand that you get that copper UID. Hormonal precaution, even though there are many options to choose from, do not work for you. So if your doctor suggest you to use some other pill, dont bother, it wont work, because the problem is not about the ingredients in the pill or in the device, etc, but it is in how your brain works. So, it is either copper, pulling out, condoms, cream etc.

But it is not all bad.

This is answer for the #2. If your wife wants to have sex, you two should make some time for it, and hold on together of that time. Arrange a day in a week, arrange three hours for it, and even though you wouldnt want to, just do it.

The problem is that her brain is telling her there are more important things to do than sex, but when you handle it with responsible and you wont arrange any other things to that time, it will work. She may not understand it, because it have always been her who have been on the decisive side in your relationship, but Sex is very important part for any relationship. Relationship needs work. You need to work for your relationships.

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by Anonymous

I've looked into other forms of birth control and I'm contemplating using neem oil as a spermicide. It's natural and not hormonal,but I hear it has a strong smell, so I'm not sure my husband would do down on me.
My husband could take the oil in a pill to make him shoot blanks, but he's so against taking any pills, it's kind of irritating that he won't even try this method. I hear this has great results, but he had to take it to work!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

The wife and I experienced something similar and sort of worked it out with the spermicide, which was ok but it put a damper on oral sex. What really helped was figuring out her fertile time of the month. My wife was a regular as a clock and one of her sister's good friend was an OB/GYN nurse and she showed us how to determine when she would be most likely to conceive. We used the spermicide then and went without the rest of the month. Worked like a charm.

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