Straight Female / 28
I met a guy on the internet and after meeting him in person and dating for several weeks I got married at the court house to him. He lost the job he had. He had a hard time finding a job. He hung out with his friends, which were all guys that worked at valet stands. I went to my boss and asked him if he could help my new husband get work.
My boss interviewed him, and the company ran a background check on him. He had many short jobs, a dozen. After my boss interviewed him he told me that he wasn't going to sugar coat things, this man had no marketable skills, he did not have a trade or a profession, other than taking women for a ride. I wasn't his first wife, he had been married before in two other states. He also told me that when he found out who this guy was, that he put a private detective on him and he reported that he was involved in a ring of people fencing stolen cars and he was a homosexual.
Needless to say I told my boss to mind his own business, sorry I asked, but he was wrong. Actually I screamed and yelled at him. My boss kept his composure and said that he rarely met somebody that was stupid, but I was that person. Things got so bad that I quit my job and went to work at a competitors.
My so called husband never found a job that was suitable for him. He was out all night with his friends, he said he made tips from parking cars at high end restaurants. I started following him, and one night he delivered a car to a customer at the restaurant where he was parking cars, the man got in and they went to a hotel. My nightmare didn't stop there, I was pregnant.
I crawled back to my ex boss and asked him to forgive me. He didn't. I found myself deep in credit card debt and debt where my husband signed as cosigner on a car for a friend. Being community property I was responsible along with him. My baby came, what was supposed to be a magic moment was terrible, I was alone at my house, which was by then in repossession, my milk wouldn't come down, I was at the edge of a nervous breakdown. I did the only thing I knew to do, call my ex boss and ask him to come rescue me from this nightmare.
He told me he was going to feed me, house me and clothe me, and the baby. But I had to sue for divorce immediately and fight for sole custody. I got what I wanted, but there was nothing to have. I got sole custody because the private investigator produced pictures of my now ex husband meeting men including several pictures of him performing oral sex on men in a parking garage.
I work for my boss, I don't have any freedom, I am bankrupt and drive a minivan he loaned me. I have a curfew, I don't do much without his knowledge, I ask for permission to go out with a girlfriend from high school. If I go out I have to get a baby sitter. I am 28 years old and I will probably not ever pay back what I owe from the bankruptcy, and that doesn't count the money he spent on me, especially getting me sole custody and having a restraining order put on my ex husband. No surprise to anyone, he has not paid a red cent in child support, he doesn't work at any job where they can garnish his wages, and he has made no effort to see his son.
It has been three years and my boss still feeds me and clothes me and houses me, he disguises the support because he has me on the payroll. But I still get more if I need it.
I started writing this because of the topic of "If the Boss only knew", but I realized that he knows everything, he knows how many pair of panties I have (because I told him when I needed some money for some new ones). I am putting his in "for women only" because maybe just one woman listens to the people that care about her and doesn't get involved with some flake off the internet.
My boss interviewed him, and the company ran a background check on him. He had many short jobs, a dozen. After my boss interviewed him he told me that he wasn't going to sugar coat things, this man had no marketable skills, he did not have a trade or a profession, other than taking women for a ride. I wasn't his first wife, he had been married before in two other states. He also told me that when he found out who this guy was, that he put a private detective on him and he reported that he was involved in a ring of people fencing stolen cars and he was a homosexual.
Needless to say I told my boss to mind his own business, sorry I asked, but he was wrong. Actually I screamed and yelled at him. My boss kept his composure and said that he rarely met somebody that was stupid, but I was that person. Things got so bad that I quit my job and went to work at a competitors.
My so called husband never found a job that was suitable for him. He was out all night with his friends, he said he made tips from parking cars at high end restaurants. I started following him, and one night he delivered a car to a customer at the restaurant where he was parking cars, the man got in and they went to a hotel. My nightmare didn't stop there, I was pregnant.
I crawled back to my ex boss and asked him to forgive me. He didn't. I found myself deep in credit card debt and debt where my husband signed as cosigner on a car for a friend. Being community property I was responsible along with him. My baby came, what was supposed to be a magic moment was terrible, I was alone at my house, which was by then in repossession, my milk wouldn't come down, I was at the edge of a nervous breakdown. I did the only thing I knew to do, call my ex boss and ask him to come rescue me from this nightmare.
He told me he was going to feed me, house me and clothe me, and the baby. But I had to sue for divorce immediately and fight for sole custody. I got what I wanted, but there was nothing to have. I got sole custody because the private investigator produced pictures of my now ex husband meeting men including several pictures of him performing oral sex on men in a parking garage.
I work for my boss, I don't have any freedom, I am bankrupt and drive a minivan he loaned me. I have a curfew, I don't do much without his knowledge, I ask for permission to go out with a girlfriend from high school. If I go out I have to get a baby sitter. I am 28 years old and I will probably not ever pay back what I owe from the bankruptcy, and that doesn't count the money he spent on me, especially getting me sole custody and having a restraining order put on my ex husband. No surprise to anyone, he has not paid a red cent in child support, he doesn't work at any job where they can garnish his wages, and he has made no effort to see his son.
It has been three years and my boss still feeds me and clothes me and houses me, he disguises the support because he has me on the payroll. But I still get more if I need it.
I started writing this because of the topic of "If the Boss only knew", but I realized that he knows everything, he knows how many pair of panties I have (because I told him when I needed some money for some new ones). I am putting his in "for women only" because maybe just one woman listens to the people that care about her and doesn't get involved with some flake off the internet.
