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Bi-Sexual Female / 21

Serious sexual question.

I'm 21, I love my boyfriend, we have a good relationship. Sex is good, but he's terrible with foreplay and to be honest it's killing me. He's never gone down on me, and doesn't really pay much attention to my breasts. Doesn't kiss my neck....you know, all the good stuff that gets a girl revved up. I've tried to steer him in that direction, but he's a male. :/

The sex it's self is pretty good, no complains there. Is it so bad to want to pre-game a little? I make sure he's good and ready before we have sex, he on the other hand no so attentive.

Advice?

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by Anonymous

I'm an older guy, in my sixties now.

But I learned early on how important foreplay is for women.
If he isn't into foreplay, then he hasn't learned its importance yet.

So you need to explain to him that he needs to learn about foreplay.
Show him if necessary.

Chances are, he might just plain not know what to do.
Guys that age aren't going to ask a girl how to do something.
Because that might reveal the extent of their sexual inexperience.
Show him how you like your clit touched or licked, where your G-spot is exactly, how to make you squirt, etc., etc.

Most younger guys are inherently stupid when it comes to girls and most girls don't even realize the extent of it.
He needs to told in no uncertain terms that this is a responsibility he has in sex.
Or he becomes just another taker, a 'wham-bam thank you maam', and women don't put with that for long.

You know and should make him aware that even though you love him a lot, there are plenty of guys out there that would be more than happy to show you the attention to detail you deserve.

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by Anonymous

Best thing you can do is tell him what you want and reward him for it if he dose a good job just like training any thing else. XD

That aside I'd like to point out that not all females like foreplay, and it's not just a "male" thing to not do it. It also goes the other way as well you can find plenty of males who need foreplay more than females before they can even have sex. At least as a female if you are hard up you can just lube up and get excited as you go, but for males especially as they get older they simply can't get hard without it, and if you are tiny and limb there's not much for doing anything other than foreplay.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

#1 has explained everything in detail.Nothing more to say.Only a woman can tell a man what she wants to get done.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

Your BF has this wham-bam-thank you mam notion of sex. Until you set him straight he's never going to change. Incorporating all that was mentioned above, you may have to draw the line and tell him that you will do nothing to make sure he's ready until he can make sure you are ready. Hold him to it and reiterate you need your pre-game before things fo any further.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

Hire a part time foreplay guy. You can negotiate a good price if you are cute. After he's through, pay him off and let your BF do his thing.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

I've had the reverse experience. I was first time with a German airline hostess and had read that European women loved foreplay. I was kissing her body, etc. and she said, in a loud voice: "DAMMIT ARE JU GOINK TU FOK MEE OR NAT. IDEOT AMEARIKANS" I saw her two or three times for sex (she was hot as hell) but the the third time, while I was hammering away, she started munching peanuts and I moved on after that session.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

He is selfish he is just using you as a spunk bag, dump him, it use to happen to me he would shoot his spunk up me then leave

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

MOST GUYS ARE ASS HOLES. YES IM A GUY SO KNOW THEM WELL AND ITS A FACT.
ALL THE POWER AND EGO BUT NO LOVE OR BRAINS.

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