I got married at 23, because I was pregnant. After my baby was born, one evening after a very difficult day, I was complaining to my husband and he told me I had it easy. I begged to differ. He said I had it easy, I didn't have to work, I lived in a house, I was well and so was the baby, so I had it easy and to embrace it and shut up.

Sometime later, the baby was doing a bit better and he came home and told me that he needed my help. I asked what for, and he said, well there is this problem, he has an 18 year old girl pregnant and she is seven months and she doesn't have anywhere to live, she was going from couch to couch at friends. But with the baby due, he wanted her to come live with us.

I was barely 24, I had a four month old baby, and all of a sudden I get this 18 year old girl who is about to give birth put in my lap and that since I had it really easy when my baby was born and now I had to pay that back and take care of his girlfriend.

I ran home, he came and got me, he put the girl in my house and now I have a seven month old baby, and new mother and a month old infant to take care of. How am I the one that has it easy?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

let us know how your first 3some goes

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

Go home, get a restraining order, Divorce him.
Forcing you to care for this woman and child is like enslavement.
That should help with the restraining order.
The Divorce should be easy, given your story.

With the restraining order, he can't come and take you back.
Go to a Women's Shelter, and ask them to find a sympathetic Attorney to help you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous

First, totally disregard the cackling of #2. All the scumbag writes is easier said than done. They aren't handing restraining orders out like candy, and divorce is NEVER easy. That scumbag is in dreamland. Look, you know your husband is absolutely right & you know your responsibilities due to having a easy time with your child. Besides, the mother will be helping you too. THAT'S how you have it easy once again. Now, go do your woman's work!!

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