Dad you were my idol, my hero, my mentor, my ace......I loved you more than life itself.
But when I turned 14 years old, you decided that you wanted to be a woman and you wanted me to accept this and love you still. It is not going to happen, never has and never will.
I do not accept you being transgender and becoming a woman.

Mom, dad left you and as you told me that you did what you had to do to take care of the hues, the bills, your children. You told me that you became depressed and lonely, and that you needed a man to fulfill your sexual and physical needs as well as your emotional needs. I did and do, understand that.........
......but no boy/child/young man wants to hear his mother having loud sex! No child wants to hear a male strangers voice holla 'suck it bitch', 'you a good bitch' 'lick my balls whore'.......and 'fuck me deep' 'make me your slut' those last words coming from you.
You had no discretion or respect for your young but growing children. My sisters and I would often grimance or talk about your escapades.

Now, I have grown and left to move across country to avoid you all. I have decided to cut all ties with all of you.
Your decisions to do as you wanted to as adults and as people of free will has a negative effect on me.
I have no regrets and while I love all of you......I have decided to make my past, my past and all whom were in my past are now dead to me. My future wife and children would never know of you or anything about you. You will never see or hear from me again