My ex has been passing our biracial kid for white in his new all-Jewish neighborhood. I found out a couple months ago that his neighbors thought I was a nanny of some sorts (who only works at night and on weekends and just happens to be really affectionate with her charge --I wonder where they though the kid was half the week?) Anyway, I outed them. I sent invites to a Black History month celebration in our kid's name. Ex is furious.