I just had an incedent in my town where the parents of a 14 yesr girl were arrested for abuse. Evidently the step father was the more aggressive one and repeatedly spanked his stepdaughter often and when he did he made her undress completely. There was also talk of him sexually m****ting her and the mother knew what was going on for years. It refreshed my momory of my childhood and of my stepfather who my mother married when I was 9. I have a sister who was 11 at the time and a brother who was 7. My siblings and I don't talk about it much anymore but back in the late 1960's and 70's lots of kids were spanked. For a long time now child abuse is more out in the open and talked about much more than back then. Unfortunatly for me and my siblings my mother was a sneeky drinker and kept a bottle of whiskey in several rooms in the house. Our step father Richard didn't hide the fact he drank everyday and in a short period of time became the ruler of the house. The first one of us he spanked was my brother and both my sister and I witnessed it when he spanked him with his pants pulled down. We only had one bathroom in the house and we were all told we were not allowed to lock the door. At first it didn't bother me much if I was in the shower and someone came in to use the bathroom but it bothered my sister right away and was the beginning of us losing all privacy and modesty around each other. My mother complied just as the rest of us did and she to was intimadated by Richard. I think that was one of the reasons she began to drink more than ever even before she met him. At home after work and on weekends he was always in underware and a few times a week me and my siblings would see him naked. He often came in the bathroom while my sister or I were in the shower and stand there and pee in front of us. There were many times over those years he came in naked telling me or my sister not to turn off the shower. As soon as we got out he would get into the shower. He spanked us most of the time because of school grades but often found other reasons. He always bared our bottoms to spank us that first year but as time went on he would make us strip naked and even did this with my brother. My sister was always the timid type and as humiliated as it was she only cried and never said much. I was the one more outspoken and believe me I paid the price for it. My mother never came upstairs when he spanked us but had to know he was. I told my mother he spanked me with nothing on a few times but to little help. She argued with him quite a few times but it never detered him. Things stayed the same except he began spanking us in front of each other making me watch my brother and sister being spanked naked as they saw me many times. It just added to the embarrassment of it as I got older and my sister was in tears the minute he tokd her to undress. She was developing and it was pathetic how she would try to hide her breasts from us and Richard. My mother would hollar from downstairs telling Richard to stop but she never had the courage to come up and see what he was putting us through.

Finally my mother and Richard got into a bang out arguement one night with her saying he spanked us to much for rediculous things. That did stop him to an extent where the spankings became less often and mostly only when we got in trouble at school or bad grades. He still came in the bathroom whenever my sister or I were in there and we continued seeing him naked several times a week, aside from seeing him in his underware most of the time. He always wore boxer shorts and many times the fly was open enough to see portions of his penis and pubic hair. As I got older he had an uncanny sense of when me and my sister were in the shower and try to get us into a conversation. He continued coming in naked once a week or more telling us to leave the shower on so he could shower. He never did this with my brother but still spanked my brother naked. By the time I was 14 he stopped spanking any of us but the bathroom situation continued. Unlike my sister I began objecting to him about it and he just continued repeating it was his house and reminded me we only have one bathroom all the time. Just the way he looked at my body was humiliating and I'm sure he did the same to my sister. There were many occassions when he would have an erection when he talked to us in the shower and even noticed it when he had his boxer shorts on. As embarrassing as it was with him seeing me naked so often to a degree I became unfazed by it but my sister was always quite about it. We talked to each other about it and my sister just went alog with it telling me we couldn't do anything. We never told anybody not even friends because back in those days you just didn't discuss that type of thing going on in your house. When my sister graduated high school she joined the Air Force and made a career out of it serving 24 years. Even today she would say the reason she joined was to get away from Richard. I started dating Matt when I was 17 and just before my 19th birthday married him. It didn't work out and we parted after a year and a half and when I was 26 married Harry who is the love of my life and I have 2 great kids. I'm sure the reason I married Matt was the same reason my sister joined the Air Force. One thing about Richard was that he never touch my sister and I except for the spankings. We were never m****ted by him but neither of us will ever forget the humiliating years we spent with Richard.