Ask him just what the hell was he thinking.
Hire a couple of thugs to beat him to death and collect the insurance. He can never be trusted.
I definitely DO NOT want to excuse his behavior, as lusting over your own daughter is never appropriate, but personally, I would like a little more information before giving you final advice. Was this the only time you have ever seen him eye your daughter sexually? How old is your daughter? How revealing was the dress? Was he really staring at her, or was it just a second and then did he catch himself? If this was the first time you have noticed this behavior from him, then I would let it go, but keep an eye on him. This may have just been a one time thing that he is personally ashamed of and will never do again. A couple of years ago, when I was 25, my mom had a Christmas party, and among the people there was my 36 year old aunt (mom's sister), wearing a low cut and inappropriately suggestive red dress. When she first came in, I had already had a couple of drinks, and I caught myself checking her out. She gave me a hug to say hi, and I hugged her a little too long and started getting hard. She must have noticed but didn't say anything. I was SO embarrassed, and I'm glad she never brought it up. Sometimes with guys, things just happen - normal biological responses. If this was a one time thing, I would let it go. If you notice it again, however, then I would bring it up with him.
Springing a boner over a 36 year old is one thing - popping wood over a child is the sign of a pervert who can NEVER be trusted around kids.
Forget it. The Cock does what it does. He might have been thinking what it looked like on you.
And if your daughter is a hottie, so what? Don't you trust her to give the alarm if he does something? Or trust her enough not to try and seduce him?
And if you're married to this bloke, why don't you trust him a bit? After all, if you're looking at some stud and your nipples perk up and he sees it, do you want him exploding because of it? The Christies have that right at least "Do unto others as you would have done unto you."
Somebody said; "Forget it. The Cock does what it does"
WRONG! This guy is a sick perv who can NEVER be trusted. Divorce him, have him arrested, whatever but do NOT let him alone around young girls.
Maybe instead of doing anything to him you might ask yourself what are you doing FOR him. A starving dog will look at a bowl full of food.
I love how "child" and "jailbait" are considered to be the same thing. /s
Wake up jughead... oh and tell your daughter to stop wearing those short shorts around her father because you don't want him getting a boner around her.
A cock does what a cock does.
Forget those people that said a cock does what it does, that may be the case for men checking out people THAT AREN'T THEIR DAUGHTERS!!!
Something sexual must have been going through his mind at that moment, and no doubt it was about your daughter.
I agree with the other poster, don't do anything drastic yet but definitely keep an eye on him around kids/young adults because if something happened you would never forgive yourself.
Good luck
There is nothing wrong with a guy getting a hard on seeing his daughter dressed up sexy. Big deal. He will probably go home and jack off.
I am sick that all women think just because am man gets a hard on that we are lusting after someone!You have no clue!A man gets an erection if the wind blows the correct way.He could get an erection for no reason at all.Men do not need stimulation to get an erection.It is automatic at times.I get erections while reading the paper,driving the car,taking a shower,ect,ect.Cut the man a break,will you. Thanks for your
consideration.Most women always think the worst is seems!
Don't be a simpleton.
You have to cut the poor guy a break. I had this happen to me at my daughters' debutante dress fitting. My daughter's dress was very revealing. She is just as curvy and sex as my wife. Hell they are closer to clones of each other.
Yes, seeing my daughter in that dress gave me a hard on but it was because I was thinking about how her mother looked in a similar dress years and years ago.
Not the exact same, but my wife (late twenties) saw her teen age brother spring an erection when she wore a short cocktail dress to a wedding. She took it as a compliment!
So you actually saw his erection with his pants on? Or do yo suspect he did have an erection?
When a woman can stop their nipples from getting hard when they are aroused or get a chill neither can a man when he see a sexy image. Getting aroused is part of human nature. Teenage boys can tell you quickly how little control in getting a hard-on.
