Between my freshman and sophomore years, I was working as a waitress at a summer vacation retreat. As soon as I got there I was pursued by one of the guys and he got his way. I soon learned that he tended to get his way with many of the girls. One of my fellow waitresses had spent time with him and we compared notes, and we became friends. One evening, on our one day off, she was in my room and she asked me if I liked girls. I was taken off guard and had to ask her if I had heard what she said. She told me that she really liked girls much more than boys and she liked me and she was just asking, but she would really like to go down on me. That if I was uncomfortable that was OK too.

Her advance was new to me, I had never really thought about doing anything with another girl, but she just had a demeanor about her that got the better of me and so I just let her take off my clothes and do what she wanted. The rest of the summer she and I became an item and as she walked me further into a relationship with her I found that the more we did, the more I looked forward to being with her.

I returned to college in the fall, and we stayed in touch. One day she called and told me that she was thinking of coming to my college to see me. She drove 18 hours and when she arrived and I saw her again, I felt my heart race and I felt light headed. When we got to my dorm room, she asked for a kiss.

She moved to where I am going to college and got a job.

This semester she is registered and will be an incoming freshman and I will be a junior. We are living together off campus and have agreed to date exclusively.

I haven't dated a guy since she and I got together during my summer job. Where this goes I really don't know. For now I am taking this one day at a time. I truly never thought that I would be where I am right now.