Did you ever have a secret that only you and one other person knew about because you were the only two involved, and then one day find out that at least six others know about it? Well I did, I've been a gay male since high school, only had one partner, a school buddy, and he's still the only one. Friday night I found out that at least six people know about it, it was a shock to find that out, because I work with all of them, but they all said, hey don't fret it, we're your friends. Now I know that if they know, there's got to be others that do to.