Me and three other guys have hung out togather for a long time, about a year ago we got to know this other guy, same age, his name is matt, we all like swap meets, car races, pheasnt hunting. We get togather on weekends and such, BBQ drink beer and what ever. About a month ago we had a yard clean up weekend, for some of the older folks in the neighborhood, then sunday afternoon we fired up the BBQ, some of the old folks came over with food, it turned out to be a good weekend except for one thing. While things were cooking we finished off some beer, then I bet matt that I could pin him on the grass for 10 seconds, he said I couldn't and I set out to prove it. Things didn't go as I planned, and he had me almost pinned, so I reached up and was going to grab his nuts to make him turn loose. Well there wasn't any thing there to grab, I tried again, but nothing, it was like feeling between a girls legs, he tensed up, then started to relax. I realized what I was doing and quickly pulled my hand back, he let go of me and got off, we got up, he didn't say anything, shortly after that things were grilled and ready so everbody got a plate and sat around eating. Matt didn't say anything to anybody, and before we were done he said he had to go and got up and left. Later on I told the others about what happened, mike said that he had seen matt getting dressed after showering one day at work and that he indeed did have a pussy, he said matt knew that I'd seen it, and asked him not to tell anybody. Since that sunday afternoon we've seen less and less of him, at work he will talk to me and the others, he's not as friendly to mike, maby he feels that mike told us, and that I wanted to find out. It was a pure accident and I feel like a fuck stick about it, we always had a good time when we went places, I don't know just how to approach him about it, good friends are hard to find.