today something very embarassing happened to me.i am 32 years old and have had minor overactive bladder.i usually dont wear protection because i can usually hold it, and i like to wear tight pants and i feel that you can see the pad bulge.well anyway i was out doing some early shopping, the stores were crowded with people.then like always my bladder needed relief so i went to the restroom and to my surprise,the restrooms were closed for cleaning,that had never happened to me before.well i shopped around a little longer til my bladder started light spasms as i came back to the restrooms,and i guess alot of the shoppers were needing to go to.the ladies room was 11 deep in line and that was just outside the door. i paniced i didnt know what to do i mean i had always found a restroom in plenty of time,and now my time was running out.i said to myself i cant wait that long so i decided to leave the store and go somewhere else quickly.well as i was walking to the front of the store to leave i my bladder had a few hard spasms and i couldnt hold it, my tan khaki pants got a very noticeable wet spot. i thought i was going to die before i got out of the store. i felt like everyone was watching me when that had happened.i have learned my lesson never trust my bladder and never trust the availability of public restrooms.