I started working at a new company last year and just recently discovered that one of my wifes ex-boyfriends works at the same company. When he found out that I was married to his ex-girlfriend he brought in pictures of my wife naked and having sex with him and another guy. He showed them to everyone that wanted to see. I did not believe it was her so he brought in scanned copies of the photos for me to have. My wife never told me she had sex with two guys at the same time let alone the pictures. I brought them home and showed my wife, she was so embarrassed she packed her things and left me to go live with her mom. She says she can never face me again because she is so embarrassed. I told her she should think about how I feel going to work everyday and knowing every person I pass in the hallways has seen her. I can't leave the job because the economy is so bad and I am afraid I won't get another one right away. I can forgive my wife but she has filed for divorce and will not communicate with me except through lawyers.