I've found myself falling hard for a man that is 16 years older than me. I'm in college... his oldest daughter is only 3 years younger than me. He lives several hours away... so far our friendship has only been physical, and the sex has been amazing, but he's made it so clear that he doesn't want anything more than that. He's just gotten divorced, and he's ready to have fun, he doesn't want a relationship.

I could love this man... I dont find our ages to be insurmountable... I dont mind his kids, either. Within a year, I'll only be living an hour away from him. I know I need to tell him how I feel, and stop lying to him, but I'm so afraid of ruining our friendship. He's clueless about how I feel. I know he is.

It's breaking my heart =( I know I need to tell him, but I'm scared. I wish he could feel the same way for me, as I feel for him.