Does your wife know? Because if she doesn't you may have trouble if she finds out. My husband's best friend is a woman who lives in another state and my best friend is a guy who lives in another state. We rack up a lot of long distance phone bills, but everyone is happy because we're straight forward aboutit. One of the major rules was "no closed doors". I feel free to walk into the bedroom or study when my hubby's on the phone with his friend. I don't eavesdrop, but I also don't feel as if something inappropriate is going on.
She won't. I just wanted to tell a few fantasies to a woman
Try a chatroom personally I don't discuss my fantasies with men I do not know, but hey there is always a first.