I met this man 3 yrs. ago. He hired me to work in his store. I knew that the attraction was there, but never acted on it because he is married. I met someone while working there, we dated and eventually I married him. I was never really in love with my husband, I was just attracted to the security and money that he could provide for me and my 2 children. About 5 months ago, my X-employer confessed his love for me. My husband beat me almost 2 months ago and my X-employer and I have fallen even deeper in love. He wants to leave his wife and I want to leave my husband. We have not officially cheated, but we are communicating and seeing each other as often as possible. His fear is that he cannot provide me the kind of life that I am currently living and my fear is that if I leave my husband and home, my boys will be devasted and I will get hurt. I don't know what to do. If I stay here, I will be unhappy, but the boys will remain happy. If I leave, I may be happy, but finacially poor. I am currently seeking legal advice from a lawyer (behind my hubby's back). My husband is getting help for what he did to me, but I have totally lost all feelings for him. Somebody, please help!